For me the compensation is simple. people more equipped with more knowledge of leading a ride, the roads, the routes and what is expected of them. With the side benefit of steering away some who clearly have no clue so as I will not have to deal with their shit later. With the hope and expectation that with that knowledge they will fit the group better and participate more.
My definition of "ride your own ride" is that in a group setting you should ride as you normally would if you were riding the same route alone. For me this means I don't let the group determine my speed or when to pass cars or what line to take thru corners or whether to stop or not. If I have a routesheet and I know where the group is going there is no need for me to stay with the group.
PS. I'm really liking the new dialogue that seems to be coming into the group. Keeping a positive, open mind to riding better and smarter will only benefit all of us.